How do you create a life for yourself after being chained to someone for so long?

The best way for an individual to separate from another is to be connected to another. What I mean by this isn't about "rebounding" it's the greatest get out of jail free card there is. This is how it goes-People as a general rule of thumb depend on others,physically/mentally-emotionally/f… etc. even if that person is you depending on you. However, the greater way is to actually depend on the laws of love to get the truest and purest most loyal form of them. If one has been far away from the laws of love they will find it hard to get back to the necessary nourishment they provide. Theres an old saying that goes like this : "When the unclean spirit is gone out of a man, he walks through dry places, seeking rest, and finds none. Then he said, I will return into my house from where I came out; and when he is come, he finds it empty, swept, and garnished. Then he goes & takes with himself seven other spirits more wicked than himself, and they enter in and dwell there: and the last state of that man is worse than the first." THIS IS YOU A person who has an awakening to know that what they are doing is wrong and to turn from it but if they do not listen to that "repentance/turning away" & seek after that which is good they will return to their "old" ways of suffering and destruction and they shall be 7 times worse than they were before.