Is this normal after wisdom teeth extraction?

Hi Brittany. All the things you mentioned are common after after your wisdom teeth are removed. 4 days is no where near long enough for your mouth to heal. It will probably take a few weeks. Getting 4 taken out at once is a very big deal. My dentist will only do one side at a time, so it won't be so dramatic. Just relax, and give yourself time to heal. You will start to feel better a little more with each day. Your body heals itself at its own pace, so don't try to rush things. I hope you feel better real soon. take care :-)